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Home » What are your 3rd places?

What are your 3rd places?

November 12, 2008 by Tom Grosh IV Leave a Comment

Last week, when back in  ‘da Burgh,  something drew me  to  Kiva Han Coffee, a memorable 3rd place at the corner of Forbes/Craig.     What could it be?   It’s more than the strategic location between Carnegie Mellon University (CMU)  and the University of Pittsburgh.   How about this grande vision?

Great coffeehouses embody four elements. First is Creation, a relationship more about the earth, stewardship, and accountability than about “products.” Great coffeehouses are places of Calling, where, as Frederick Buechner said, “your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” As individual callings meet, they develop Community, where divisive issues become shared concerns, and through which we find Communion, the celebration of the mystery and majesty of the cosmos in each other and the world. This is the cultural potential of the third place . . . College life presents two parallel tracks: the work your teacher is supposed to make you do, and the things you explore to honour your heart and soul in your own parallel quest. Countless times I’ve heard teachers and students say the most fulfilling parts of the college experience are the extended conversations, the relationships that develop and expand on the assignments. If you’re just taking classes, you’re wasting much of what is most valuable about the college experience. And a great coffeehouse might just be the environment not only to bring your deepest desires and longings to life, but to allow you to do so for others. — Great coffeehouses, great conversations, and the college experience

Now that’s a strong encouragement for coffeehouse conversations!    Are you  finding  significant  3rd places  in your current studies/research (or  remember some significant ones from  your formative past)?   If so, please  share some places and stories.   By-the-way, when visiting Kiva Han Coffee,  I had the opportunity to once again chat with a friend who serves on the Carnegie Mellon University Modern Languages Faculty.   What did we talk about over hot drinks and pastries?   Family and postmodernism.    What else?

Tom Grosh IV
Tom Grosh IV

Tom enjoys daily conversations regarding living out the Biblical Story with his wife Theresa and their four girls, around the block, at Elizabethtown Brethren in Christ Church (where he teaches adult electives and co-leads a small group), among healthcare professionals as the Northeast Regional Director for the Christian Medical & Dental Associations (CMDA), and in higher ed as a volunteer with the Emerging Scholars Network (ESN). For a number of years, the Christian Medical Society / CMDA at Penn State College of Medicine was the hub of his ministry with CMDA. Note: Tom served with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship / USA for 20+ years, including 6+ years as the Associate Director of ESN. He has written for the ESN blog from its launch in August 2008. He has studied Biology (B.S.), Higher Education (M.A.), Spiritual Direction (Certificate), Spiritual Formation (M.A.R.), Ministry to Emerging Generations (D.Min.). To God be the glory!

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Filed Under: Christ and the Academy, Mentoring Tagged With: calling, coffeehouses, communion, community, conversation, creation, Mentoring

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