When I purchased Randy Pausch’s The Last Lecture in book form, I mentioned to the cashier how I played pick-up basketball with Randy while a campus minister at Carnegie Mellon University (CMU).Â She responded by sharing excitedly about the CMU Computer Science Professor’s book and interview with Diane Sawyer.Â I asked her if she watched The Last Lecture.Â She responded, No.Â IÂ encouraged her to do so.Â Why?
1.Â Â Randy was a dynamic, creative, and refreshing personalityÂ at CMUÂ well beforeÂ he faced pancreatic cancer. Â His optimism in the face of tragedyÂ was inspirational to many people.Â And his legacy will continue to be influentialÂ forÂ years to come.Â In Randy’s lecture, entitled Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams,Â youÂ find aÂ hopeful Tigger instead ofÂ an cynical EeyoreÂ pushing his technological habitatÂ forward with his last breath while at the same timeÂ leaving aÂ legacy for his wife and children!
2.Â Â Randy confronts head on the elephant in the room, i.e.Â his terminal cancer.Â Passionate about honesty, he writes, If I could only give three words of advice, they would be “tell the truth.” If I got three more words, I’d add: “All the time.” My parents taught me that “you’re only as good as your word,” and there’s no better way to say it” (p. 163).Â Note:Â for Randy’s chronicling of his journey,Â check out hisÂ health update page.
But as a follower of Christ who has facedÂ his share ofÂ brick walls, including a personal struggle withÂ intermediate grade mucoepidermoid carcinoma along withÂ post-treatment health concerns and the death of my infant daughter Elise Faith;Â I find optimismÂ aloneÂ to be lacking when facing life’s tragedies.Â Although some hardships may, as RandyÂ states,Â give us a chance to show us how much we want something because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They’re there to stop the other people, I find that brick walls remind me that the world is not about me, that I depend upon Another (beyond family, community, financial resources, contacts, and memories), and I have been given One More Day to be a blessing to those around me.
IÂ enjoyed my time on the basketball court with Randy,Â never-the-lessÂ I wish that I would have had One More Day to chat with him aboutÂ facingÂ brick wallsÂ not by one’s own will but through Christ Jesus.Â If you have a moment as the new term begins, let me know your thoughts on The Last Lecture.
About the author:
Tom enjoys daily conversations regarding living out the Biblical Story with his wife Theresa and their four girls, around the block, at Elizabethtown Brethren in Christ Church (where he teaches adult electives and co-leads a small group), among healthcare professionals as the Northeast Regional Director for the Christian Medical & Dental Associations (CMDA), and in higher ed as a volunteer with the Emerging Scholars Network (ESN). For a number of years, the Christian Medical Society / CMDA at Penn State College of Medicine was the hub of his ministry with CMDA. Note: Tom served with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship / USA for 20+ years, including 6+ years as the Associate Director of ESN. He has written for the ESN blog from its launch in August 2008. He has studied Biology (B.S.), Higher Education (M.A.), Spiritual Direction (Certificate), Spiritual Formation (M.A.R.), Ministry to Emerging Generations (D.Min.). To God be the glory!